My Father, the Father

a memoir of love and double lives

What if your father was a Catholic priest—and no one knew? In this memoir, Tony Beadle reveals the astonishing true story of his upbringing as the secret child of a beloved Boston priest and a brave, determined mother. Together, they lived a hidden life, balancing love with lies to protect their family and the Church. As Father Ralph served his parish by day, he quietly raised his son by night. Decades later, Tony’s discovery of long-lost relatives brings the past into sharp focus. This memoir is a powerful exploration of truth, identity, and the cost of secrecy.